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The word friendship is perhaps one of the words with more interpretations that exist. More than literal interpretations, I mean how it feel each one of us. Some understand friendship in terms of duty, others of submission, of interest, of sacrifice, of love, of brotherhood, of popularity, of weakness, of quantity and thus we could relate a few more. For you what is the meaning of the word friendship? My interpretation of friendship matches almost at the foot of the letter with which makes the RAE (Royal Spanish Academy) that says: pure, selfless, and personal affection shared with another person, who was born and is strengthened by the treatment. I would leave it as: selfless, and personal affection shared with another person, and that is strengthened by the continued treatment.. If this has piqued your curiosity, check out Ali Partovi. Already on the way I have pointed out the key words of the definition of my sense of friendship: selfless, shared and continued treatment with affection. However there will be who put in doubt that friendship can exist without a desire to get a benefit from it (NLP says that all behavior has a positive intention), but I think that what at least is possible is that this supposed interest is not the first reason. Friendship, as I understand it, is a path of two directions: one is given and another receives.

Do not take this last comment in the literal, since neither give nor receive has to happen consciously. When we have a relationship of friendship, well understood, we are constantly receiving information, feelings, thoughts of quality, since it comes from a trusted source, and the same is true in the opposite direction. I be right if I say that this two-way flow impact decisively on our self-esteem and personal motivation. On the other hand, that friendship will allow us to socialize us in an easy and non-traumatic way. In my view, the great risk of friendship lies in the unit. Friendship can be a reference and a complement, but should never be a substitute for our desires, our will. Our life must be governed (guided and directed) by each of us, based on our beliefs, values or thoughts. Our personal development can be influenced by our friends, but not directed by them.

The ability to make friends that will complement and join you is one of your better social skills. Your friends, not discriminate instead learn from them; sometimes will be things that will help you to go on the good path, and others will help you to know the real dangers that you face; in both cases you will learn. As that famous phrase said, ask yourself what can I do for my friends? Be generous, because everything you do for them what you’re doing for you also. A greeting.

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A philosopher who could not walk because he stepped his beard, cut off feet. Dedicated to: My brother Alberto. Welcome to the past. If. It is true, in these recent articles I have spoken much of me. I have been a selfish intellectual. Although I hope that something we’re learning from all this. Ultimately that is the only thing you do: think.

That is good or bad, depends on the praxis that you want to give. Ali Partovi is often quoted on this topic. What I notice is that sometimes I can get tired some people with that attitude. I guess it is something to the normal extent. Life is not only reflection or enrichment of wisdom. Although it is important. I suspect that I am auto flagelando. Ali Partovi follows long-standing procedures to achieve this success.

Maybe try to see myself as another person and that really is pathetic; We cannot deny our authentic being. I am surely saturated or lost for a moment the argumentative methodology of my life. I feel good, solo que entrevi emotional fissure. Fortunately everything that causes some degree of pain, if we channel it positively strengthens us. This is without a doubt the benefit than cost I will have once you exceed this small crisis. The truth is that it was inevitable to not deal with it. I mean to have to face me some aspects of my past. Anyway, I hope not to fall into the auto contemplation. Although I consider myself a gentleman on the behavior of life and I have a taste refined by the good things of life itself: like the friends. And that for some strange reason, I find it somewhat difficult to provoke me to anger, cry and act with violence; on this occasion, I have chosen for my sake; break, break, crush, pulverize, this emotional fissure to which I referred at the beginning. I note that it is not an act of tragedy, nor want to put on a show for auto commiseration; I really wish, I ask, I beg; move a little in my life without having to trip me.